To Prevent Bashing Follow The Forum Rules

The reason why I liked forum groups is that I can share my articles which are open for critiques. Some of the members are sharing their honest suggestions how to improve my articles. But there are times I received comments not actually criticizing the idea I injected to my works but directly insulting my personality or my credibility as the author. However, I just ignored them and thought that maybe they missed to read the forum rules.

Cover of Bashing

For some years being a member to some Internet forum groups, I had noticed that flaming or bashing between members is happening. Some of the members are posting deliberately hostile messages without the awareness of other people’s feelings. Now many of forum groups owners and its moderators have agreed and work together to apply some forum rules and policies to be followed by its members. And who ever ignored its rules will be banned from accessing the forum. Some would be banned for few days, weeks, a month or would be kicked off out from the forum permanently.

Speaking of forum rules and policies – I noticed that they are common to all of forum groups and other e-groups I have gone through such as:

• Members are not allowed to post defamatory, obscene, threatening, profane and hateful messages. The Admin or Moderators will ban members or offending posters.
• Commenting may include grammar correction. It may also focus on form and technicalities. Members should take all these constructively.
• All criticisms should be taken constructively believing that there are no good or bad articles and no wrong or right comments. The important thing is that, if the author wished to send his articles to other publishing sites at least they are already polished.
• Members should justify their criticisms too, explaining their reasons when they note an article’s weaknesses. As much as possible, members should make suggestions on how to improve the article instead of just pointing out its weaknesses.
• Members should avoid criticisms which may only offend but do not help the author in improving the article. Example: “This article is rubbish.”
• Comments which taunt, show contempt, disrespect or personally attack the author are not allowed. Members who make such comments will be penalized accordingly.
• Discussions or debates like social issues and current events are allowed but should be done with respect among concerned members. Personal arguments among members are not tolerated and are subject to disciplinary action.

Flaming or Bashing in the net occurs when someone attacked the person, insulted him personally, or criticized the person who authored the article. However, if someone has criticized the ideas injected by the author in his article, it’s not flaming and it is normal.

According to Wikipedia Flaming also known as bashing, is hostile and insulting interaction between Internet users. Flaming usually occurs in the social context of an Internet forum, Internet Relay Chat, Usenet, by e-mail, game servers such as Xbox Live or Play station Network, and on video-sharing websites. It is frequently the result of the discussion of heated real-world issues such as politics, religion, and philosophy, or of issues that polarize sub-populations, but can also be provoked by seemingly trivial differences.

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How True Circumcised Women are Found to Be Stressed, Anxious and Aggressive

Circumcised males live with constant irritation to their exposed glands, these results from friction against their clothing during work or exercises. Female circumcision is a horrible tradition practiced in some cultures too. It involves the removal of the clitoris and other sensitive parts that are vital to female sexual response; the female is castrated, not circumcised. The girl’s genitalia are stitched together in such a way that sex will be painful and childbirth horrific.

Image via Wikimedia Commons Photo taken at the British Museum, London, June 1970 uploaded by Meisam 

Some conservative group believed that female circumcision is about genital mutilation and a human rights violation? In the Holy Bible there was no text recorded regarding circumcision of females. In African oral tradition tells of female circumcision dating back more than 2000 years. Although it has been outlawed all across Africa, it is the women themselves who by and large continue the tradition, with the circumcision being performed by the women.

In Genesis 17, the first man who was circumcised was Abraham who was ninety-nine years old and his son Ishmael who was thirteen years old followed by every male in Abraham’s household, including those born in his household or bought from a foreigner.

Some reasons why circumcision is practiced

• It helps diminish the teen pregnancies since they’ll get no pleasure from sex.
• The woman can’t feel sexual pleasure and when it’s time for consummating marriage, the man can tell if she still a virgin because her flower sewed close and we all know it’s not pretty when he penetrates her.
• In other countries, the women often view it as a rite of passage and an ancient tradition fulfilled.
• When money is involved everything is possible. Money is the priority not moral values, not ethics, not health. Circumcision is for money.
• Cancer of the labia is twice as common as cancer of the penis. Removal of the labia would give more protection from cancer.

Some group of people believed that female circumcision decreased risk of HIV. But there are findings that those women who were circumcised were found to be stressed, anxious and aggressive.

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